Friday, February 07, 2014

Reyansh's First Year

Dear Reyanshu,

Wish you a very very happy birthday and a happy new year from mamma and papa. I wanted to talk to you about 2013 and what a blessings you have been for all of us in our lives. You have now completed one full year of your life and all I can say you have been the best baby ever and everything we could have asked from God. This year started off with you being just 2 months in January and we recognizing your face in your first two months. Neeru mummy was here with us, taking care of you, kissing you and talking to you every day. You were such a small cute little thing who used to sleep all day in your small little bassinet. Your mamma was still recovering, but she just would not let you off her eyes even for 1 second. The news of your birth had already spread to all nook and corner of the world, and every day was a blessing for us, as we saw you slowly moving your eyes, arms and legs. We used to talk about you a lot, we'll sit on our recliner rock you to sleep, sooth you when you cry. It has been an eventful year for all of you and I will try to sum it down.

The first big part of the year we'll call it as FIRST GRAND TRAVEL. In March when you were just 3.5 months, you made your first voyage across the globe to visit our home country India. Jitu mama was getting married and he would have no other way, but to have you in his wedding. He even delayed his wedding to have you with him. We carried you in your big Car Seat with us, where we could keep you safe and comfy. People just loved it. They would treat you like Lord Krishna in his jhoola and every one gave loads of blessings to you. Whoever saw you the first time fell in love with you. I remember when we first went home and I gave you to badi mummy she was so moved. You are her first great grandson. After watching you every day on Skype, when she finally held you she was like "oh he is so small. On computer he looks so big" and we all burst laughing. You travelled to Gwalior with your mamma and mamu on train. This was the first time when you were away from me. Mummy tells me you pooped all over your clothes. They ended up seating at the wrong seats and it was all a big mess. She ended up crying for you, for making you go through this tough travel. But all was well when you reached Mummy's old home in Gwalior. You got your own bed and room. People were barred to enter the room without permission. Anyone found disturbing your sleep had to feel the wrath of your mamma. She was mean :)

 We got an amazing dress for you with pagdi, you sat on the horse with Jitu mama and you greeted Divya Mami the first time she came home. If everything new has to happen Reyanshu has to do it. I remember during baraat time Nikhil chachu and Neeru mummy had you with them. Nikhil chachu spent 3 hours sitting in car holding you in his arm. You were sleeping all this while. During all the ceremonies Nikhil chachu will take the role Reyanshu’s Guardian. He will sit with you, carry you, feed you, and put you to sleep in his arms. He would just look at you with awe and keep smiling. It was a small trip, we came back to US, only to go back again for Nitin Chachu’s wedding in May again. You got sick for the first time when we came back and had some fever and cold. We blame it to the Cold Flight AC. Whatever it was it made your mamma very sad.

 Not much changed in two months, but we knew you were getting big enough to outgrow the flight bassinets we were getting. You crossed the globe again, flying over Europe and Asia we reached back India promise to not to leave Delhi this time and taking more care of you. Nitin Chacha wedding was so much blast. We boys got matching clothes. You and me were always matching, occasionally mamma too. You were still in your sleeping cycles but surely turning into stronger and cuter baby. Everyone loved your long hairs rock star look. Bhoomika chachi calls you Reyu Rock star. Another special thing happened; you got to eat your first food. We had small ceremony at home, everyone in our family from Didi, Mamaji, Maasi were there to feed you your first real food. Gavinder Panditji did your "Annprashan" Ceremony and we fed you honey, fruits, sweets. You didn't like it and started crying. But mamma papa was there to hold you all this while. 2013 Summer was just getting started for us.

Once back from India we got your Poonam Nanny back to take care of you. ‘Khattu’ is what she used to call you. I use to call her your ‘Dai Maa’. I think you were too little to remember her, but she was again someone who loved you a lot. She would run around you whole day. When mamma was busy working in the other room, she would take care of everything you need. Lot of memories, pictures are attached to her like the first time you laughed, first time you crawled, first time you walked, she was there. But we had to say bye to her cause your Nana-papa, Naani-Maa were coming to Americaaaaaa!!!!

By the way in between we also took a vacation trip to Virginia Beach and Outer banks with Vaibhav uncle and family. Rehoboth Beach was a good vacation too. So Nana-papa, Naani-Maa finally got their visa. It is some story how they got it, but they say because you really wanted them to be here, you had your hand in getting them the visa.

Winter had started, and we all waited for your Jitu mamu and Divya mami to come to US from Australia. While we waited for them, you on the other hand continued to grow naughty every day. You would pick up new thing to do every day and surprise us. All the child protection in the house are broken, kitchen wall where we had put a small door has a big hole in it now, all drawers and kitchen cabinets wear broken locks. Kitchen happened to be your favorite place, because mummy and Nanni-maa are always there. You will not hesitate to even the heaviest thing in the kitchen cabinet or run into the bathroom as soon as the door opens. Kind of tough to handle you but you would always always amaze us by your cutest naughty looks. October has set in you don't crawl anymore; I think you hardly crawled for a month and it was just to stand on your feet when you were only 9 months old. Nanna - papa, Naani- maa can't get enough of your laughter and talking. While me and mamma, we stand and only feel proud and happy seeing you grows. We had a small Halloween Party for you at home and dressed you up as a cutest bunny that Neeru Mummy got from India when you were born. We got you bunny ears, bow and a tail and tadaa... there you were. November is our favorite time of the year. Both me and mamma just love the holiday season and you make it more special because it’s your birthday. FIRST BIRTHDAY, oh what a proud moment it is for all of us. We hosted a small party for you and theme was Animal Kingdom. We had a big Jungle theme cake, wall hangings, photo booth. Mamma went a long way to prepare for it and look absolutely beautiful on that day. No one else but she is the happiest person on this day. We had our friends come in to meet you, shower you with gifts and wishes. You thank them all by being a good boy and running all around Minerva Party hall.

We danced and said good bye to everyone. Jitu mama and Divya Maami joined us in DEC. Now what happened after this I call it as TRIP OF OUR LIVES. We travelled all the way from home to Orlando, Miami, Key West and back in just 8 days. Papa drove 2500 miles and your car passed 10,000 miles. It was so much fun on the road. We went to Universal Studios, Island of adventure and Magical Kingdom. Your first trip to the happiest place on Earth. I am sure we are going to go back again and again, but we got you a souvenir to remember your first visit.

 Your favorite foods are – banana, peas, gold fish and butter-parathi. You also like eating cheese cubes but only from mamma’s salad and like to eat with her fork too like a big boy. Though you really trouble us at times with your milk time and food time but mamma can still keep a lot of patience to make sure you are fed well. Few words that you know really well and will act on it a second are Sit, Put it back, Bubye, Flying Kisses, jai- jai, hi-fi, dancey-dancey. You love to talk on phone and iPad and we enjoy watching you do your actions. Your favourite lullaby is - Chanda hai tu mera suraj hai tu, lakdi ki khathi and Halwa wala aa gaya.

We wrapped up New Year eve by kissing you good night and wishing you happy New Year. But this year was more than just this. As your mamma and papa adjusted to be parents to this awesome baby, we learned lot of things.

Mummy is working on one of the biggest project of her life. Her work kept her awake night after night, days were long but she didn’t miss a single beat to take care of her precious child. She has pretty much given you everything she had in her. She got great accolades from her work and won "best performer of the year" award as well. She’s the best and she wants you to know that if you love something you will get it done, be how tough the road you can touch new heights if you dedicate yourself to it just like she did. She has set lot of goals for 2014; you are still the number 1 priority for her. You have only made her look more beautiful every day and she is proud to share you with the world.

 Papa had an easy year, but I did do one thing for you. I ran my first full marathon and a half-marathon. I wanted to dedicate this run to you and mamma. She supported me all the while, taking care of you when I am out practice or busy with other things. But all the while I wanted to remind you that nothing is impossible. No matter how big the task is, if you put consistent effort and practice to it, you can win it in the end.

 I am almost done, but in the last here are your 2014 resolutions.
 (Yes, we will make your resolutions every year till you are 30!!!)
 1. Potty Training
 2. Go to Day Care
 3. Learn to speak
 4. Learn to play and make new friends

 HAPPY NEW YEAR and LOADS OF LOVE - Mamma and Papa

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Friday, November 15, 2013

Reyansh First Birthday Invitation


Thursday, February 18, 2010

02.16.2010: First Year Of Togetherness

"Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I can't help falling in love with you"

As the band played softly in the dim red light, only thing we could do was hold our hand and sit silently blankly staring at the band. Her head leaning on my shoulder and mind engrossed in memories of last one year. 2009 year just flew by and we just completed one year of togetherness. 16 Feb 2010

We had been long waiting for this day and have been planning from about a month, where we want to be and how we want to celebrate it. Countless hours of Googling, Kayaking and deal searching we zeroed on our destination. Gifts that I had order started coming in well before time and I was all set for huge surprise. I just couldn’t wait to show it off to her but then at the same time, didn’t want to spoil that one special moment and smile that I love so much. Quietly I collected all gifts, cards and in my mind decided what time and how to deliver each. I was ready and on top of my game.

But then it came in: Blizzard of 2010. 55 inches of snow in 5 days. It snowed from 5th till 10th. All the plans started to go deep down in snow. Upcoming weather for the week didn’t look any bright either. 16th was on Tuesday and we were expecting snow on 15 and 17. Another storm warning was everywhere. I think I even went through tips of 'driving in icing conditions'. But nothing can prepare us for the bad weather and chances of being stuck at home on 14 and 16 loomed large and looked quite possible. With delays and snow everywhere, gifts that Shalini had ordered for me didn’t arrive. On 12th with stone cold heart we finally gave in to the destiny and decided to be at home.


But the wind of change soon blew in taking away the clouds and we had clear weather for next 2 days. on 13 night we decided to pack our bags and leave first thing in the morning. We made a quick call to Pocono Palace and were on our way for the anniversary romantic getaway. Driving through the snow filled landscape was just an awesome experience. As we drove through mountains and valleys it only got better. If this was the beginning, what followed next was breathtaking.

We got our own private Lakeside Chalet with a huge Jacuzzi and a fire place.

14: Valentines Day we drove all the way to Mt. Airy Casino, re-living the Vegas Memories. Buffet was awesome and our gambling loosing spree continued here also. But it was all the more fun hanging out and just having fun. With her Red Top and dazzling hairdo she looked so beautiful. "I Love You tungu".

15: House Of Candles. Saw live Ceramic Candle making. It was nice and warming.
Next was Camelback Trail. It was freeeezzzzzzzzzzzing over the top. We wrapped ourselves in all the clothes we could find. 2 sweaters, 2 jackets, caps, gloves, snow boots. We were loaded with layers, looked funny and moved funny. It was hard to recognize each other in such disguise.
As the evening approached it got all the more cold and windy. We took our way back into our cozy room and decided to call it a day.

16: The DDay. We exchanged gifts on 15th night. Got a beautiful engraved ring band from my sweetheart. It was just the one I always wanted. We had reserved this day to spend only in the resort and enjoy all the amenities.
First thing, we went for Snow Mobling or simply put Snow Biking or scooter. It was pulsating. Shalini was sitting right behind me as we took lap after lap and enjoyed the bumpy ride. It was awesome and thrilling. Got to take some amazing snaps and had loads of fun.
Next on the cards was Skiing. We got all geared up and started on our Cross Country Ski. More than ski first it was walk with skis on. Our aim was to reach the nearest Hill slide and then take a plunge. But didn’t know the path to hill was full of falls. I am sure I fell once, Shalini twice but still we managed to reach the hill to which when we reached didnt look that tall. But anyway this was the time to do what we came for. With courage in her heart and ski in hands she took the first plunge and fell big time with legs all locked up and crossed in weird ways. Only way out: take out your skis sweetheart.
Then it was my turn. Cautiously I took it slow but fell as soon I started sliding. As I was trying to get on my feet, I started to slide again. I was almost sitting down on skis and sliding down, but still I managed to fall again. I was in seven heaven and couldn’t stop laughing. Shalini was standing clicking every moment of it. I went back again and repeated it again sitting on the skis and sliding down.
Soon we were exhausted of laughing and snow fight and went back to our room to get ready for the evening.

Shalini wore a stunning dress that she had bought for the occasion and I dressed neatly in shirt and jeans as we made our way to the club. It was just so all well decorated, warm and cozy that each step felt so beautiful. We sat down on the bar tried out the drink of the day "Fusion". The photographer came in and we happily posed for her. We wanted to take the memories of the day back with us.
Dinner was just the starting of the evening. We were then invited for "Mardi Gras" live music show. Band played beautiful love songs as we sat in our booth holding hands and absorbing every moment. It was right there when I felt so lucky to have her in my life and realized how much I love her. I just sat there silently hugging her and falling in love over and over again. Given a chance I would do it all over again.

As the music came to and end we were treated with our last wish. "Chocolate Fantasy Dinner" we could dip anything and everything in the chocolate fountain. Shalini always wanted to have strawberry dipped and I am glad she got her wish.

It was one of the most magical times that we had spent together. The first year they say is always the best and it had been so true for us. We have had such amazing time and seek God's blessing to continue having the same. May our friendship and Love get stronger by each passing day. I Love You Sweetheart and this is for you. mmmuuuuaaaahhhh.

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Saturday, February 06, 2010

Numb Hopes

9pm. days still not over. One of the longest day of my life in last one year. Snow storm has kept me stuck at home from last 2 days and has left enough snow pilled up to keep us in for atleast 2 more.
Sitting in the room with lights off and watching David Gilmour play. A long forgotten DVD that I found hidden deep down same as my long forgotten dreams that are flashing now in my eyes.

High Hopes.

"Encumbered forever by desire and ambition
There's a hunger still unsatisfied
Our weary eyes still stray to the horizon
Though down this road we've been so many times"

long ago we had ambition. Ambition to do soemthing, to be something. desire to succeed, be different from others, run far ahead of everyone. hunger for fame, making a name for ourself.

Few years then, lost the appetitte, hunger's been satisfied with the junk, eyes too weary to look beyond, brain too crowded to think, derailed from the road that can lead to all.
High Hopes have all flown far beyond to some other side now.

"Running before time took our dreams away
Leaving the myriad small creatures trying to tie us to the ground
To a life consumed by slow decay"


Lets play the next song.
Comfortably Numb

"When I was a child I had a FEVER My hands felt just like two balloons.
Now I've got that feeling once again
I can't explain, you would not understand
This is not how I am.

I have become comfortably numb."


Done.
The song is over.

Its 9:20 nothing has changed. Its still snowing, its still dark, its still maddening. Feel like throwing up. I am stick to the stomach.
Oh wait Rick Wright comes in. Let me pick up some Broken China. But thats not worth. lets just leave, and carry on what I have been busy with "blankness".


P.S. I am not editing it, not reading it again, damn whatever, nevermind. The Child is grown the dream is gone.

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Monday, January 12, 2009

Morning

Morning came by today
full of a surprise
and a feeling so good
waking me to thought
that always float close
Missing You
Dreaming You
Open my eyes and
Hoping to see you

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Monday, January 05, 2009

बीतती रात

इक रात देखता रहा तेरी तस्वीर
कमरे के एक कोने में
याद नहीं क्या सोच रहा था
रात के उस सोने में

डर लगा
डर लगा कुछ भूल न जाऊं
इस बीतती रात के अंधेरे में
थोडी देर और देख लूँ
थोड़ा जी और भर लूँ
कहीं यह मुस्कान मिट न जाए
सुबह के कुछ होने से

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Thursday, January 01, 2009

Happy New Year 2009


It’s a New Year Day, 1st Jan, 2009, a day to realize how quickly the last year has gone by. And, hoping this year would be much bigger and better than the last. May be all the unfinished business of last year and all that we could not do, will be done this year. Be stronger and motivated to accelerate faster this year.

As I am writing this I started to feel how much a change of a year can do. It feels like a new beginning, a new outlook, a new passion and joy, which can really set the mood for the whole year to come. I think its psychological thing as it serves a point of time which reflects change. But whatever it is, it’s a surely a good point to start what we always wanted to do and have been putting on the back burner the whole last year.

2008 was a great year a turning point surely for me. Found an amazing person to spend my life with (sitting in Cafe Rouge), a whole worth year of waiting, a whole year of being silent, a whole year spend thinking (more inward). Lots of travelling and settling in new places, new friends, doing and picking up new things. It was fun and surely a year to savor.

So this year something new. Something I have never done before. Making some new year resolutions. Here's my list:

1. To make my sweetheart more happier
2. Not to give into any fears, and fight it heads on
3. Better Diet, food habit and exercise
4. To make CarbonFreeZone Blog a reality
5. To be friendlier with new people I meet
6. And, also to keep up with my old friends whom I miss.

I think these are the top 6 I have, may be if something strike me, I will add to the list, else I think if I can manage this, I know I will have a wonderful year on my hands.

Take Care,

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